Apart from my mother tongue (which is so obscure there's no point in mentioning it)

Nooooo! Tell meeeeee! I'm always intrigued by obscure languages. And I just love knowing that this fandom has such a wide spread of people in it, not just all from boring anglophone or indo-European backgrounds.

I like how quickly they went from the "courtship" phase to the "old married couple" phase, and I love how mature and sensible they were about it.

Absolutely! At points where other shows might have spun off into sulking and lack of communication, this one just lets the characters talk and handle things, or simply respect each other's boundaries. So wonderfully mature.

I like Ye Zun as an antagonist. But I'm not interested in seeing him being redeemed and I'm definitely not interested in shipping him with anyone.

I feel exactly the same way. :)